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Philemon

Looking back over Philemon

March 14, 2018 By Annette1 Leave a Comment

Summing up what I learned from Philemon.

Over the past week I’ve worked my way through the book of Philemon. It’s been good to put up nuggets of truth from this short book of the bible.   To consider the people that Philemon spent his time with and the love he held for fellow believers.  It’s good to see that love and to be reminded that we too should have a great love for our fellow believers.

Then to see Paul’s heart… oh… he loved Onesimus and yet he chose to send this loved helper back to Philemon. He also had the confidence that Philemon would do what was right, take him back and love him as a fellow believer.   Paul closes off Philemon reminding me that we are not to be believers in isolation, but a people working together. 

Philemon 1-3  Paul’s Greeting in Philemon.

Philemon 4-7 Paul’s Prayer for Philemon. 

Philemon 8-22 Paul’s Confidence.

Philemon 23-25 Not In Isolation.

Filed Under: Faith Tagged With: Bible Study, Devotional, Philemon

Not in Isolation

March 13, 2018 By Annette1 Leave a Comment

I regret not being able to get to these verses yesterday, I had plans to do so, but then life intervened.  Anyways, today we read the last three verses of Philemon.  Last time we met we talked about a request Paul had of Philemon. 

23 Epaphras, my fellow prisoner in Christ Jesus, sends greetings to you, 24 and so do Mark, Aristarchus, Demas, and Luke, my fellow workers.
25 The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit.

seeing that we are not in isolation as believers

These last three verses are Paul’s closing greetings.   Greetings from other people who are with Paul in prison and elsewhere.  Epaphras is a fellow believer in prison.  You can learn more about who he was at this link. 

Fellow workers are Mark, Aristarchus, Demas, and Luke.   These men are not prisoners but share in the work of the Lord, helping others know the Lord. 

I find this verse interesting: The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit.  I might be, being nit-picky but I wonder if there is significance in saying with your spirit instead of just saying be with you. 

I have to admit that I don’t know what I can take away from this passage.  I know that other people helped Paul while he was in prison, and that they helped him minister the gospel to others.

That he wasn’t the only believer imprisoned for his faith, is nothing new to my ears.

Recognition is there, that Paul often closed his letters extending grace to those reading the letter. 

But what is there for me today?   I fear I do not see it.  Maybe it’s just as simple as this. We are not believers in isolation. Paul called for Philemon to keep a part of his heart.  Giving him Onesimus back to care for as part of his church and household.  Others were there to help Paul as well so he was not alone. Being alone in grief is not a good thing, it wasn’t easy for Paul to give Onesimus back to Philemon depending on him as he did.

Let us then remember to not be in isolation.  To remember our larger family.  A good thing that eh?

 

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Paul’s Confidence

March 7, 2018 By Annette1 Leave a Comment

Do you remember Paul’s lovely prayer yesterday?   Today we get to hear a plea from Paul to Philemon in Philemon 1:8-22.

8 Accordingly, though I am bold enough in Christ to command you to do what is required, 9 yet for love’s sake I prefer to appeal to you—I, Paul, an old man and now a prisoner also for Christ Jesus— 10 I appeal to you for my child, Onesimus, whose father I became in my imprisonment. 11 (Formerly he was useless to you, but now he is indeed useful to you and to me.) 12 I am sending him back to you, sending my very heart. 13 I would have been glad to keep him with me, in order that he might serve me on your behalf during my imprisonment for the gospel, 14 but I preferred to do nothing without your consent in order that your goodness might not be by compulsion but of your own accord. 15 For this perhaps is why he was parted from you for a while, that you might have him back forever, 16 no longer as a bondservant but more than a bondservant, as a beloved brother—especially to me, but how much more to you, both in the flesh and in the Lord.
17 So if you consider me your partner, receive him as you would receive me. 18 If he has wronged you at all, or owes you anything, charge that to my account. 19 I, Paul, write this with my own hand: I will repay it—to say nothing of your owing me even your own self. 20 Yes, brother, I want some benefit from you in the Lord. Refresh my heart in Christ.
21 Confident of your obedience, I write to you, knowing that you will do even more than I say. 22 At the same time, prepare a guest room for me, for I am hoping that through your prayers I will be graciously given to you.Philemon 1:8-22 talks about Paul's confidence in Philemon and Speaks to Philemon's love for the church.

Paul opens his heart to Philemon, showing him a young man named Onesimus. Paul mentions that he is an old man, a man not only old, but a prisoner.  And he COULD order Philemon to comply with his wishes, but rather to use his love as a medium for the request he makes. 

Take Onesimus back.  Onesimus is like a son to Paul, being a useful fellow.  And Paul wants to keep him by his side as he serves him well.  BUT he can’t.  He needs Philemon’s permission.  He doesn’t just want Philemon saying yes because he wants to be rid of a useless one, but he wants Philemon to see Onesimus as he is now.. a truly useful fellow, a fellow that Paul calls family.

So as he sends Onesimus back, it is like Paul’s heart is travelling to Philemon.  That is the love the Paul has for this man, this bondservant of Philemon’s.  

In his desire to have Onesimus back with him with the good and knowledge consent from Philemon, Paul raises the question, that just perhaps Onesimus needed to be parted from Philemon for a while.  Parted in order to no longer be useless but useful.  No longer a bondservant but a loved brother in the Lord. 

Can you imagine the shock this would be for Philemon?   To find out that his bondservant (the useless one) was with Paul and was BEING USEFUL!!!!   Not only that, he was considered to be like a son to Paul.  Plus this… a believer.  This useless Onesimus… a believer and useful and coming back to him, A changed man. 

Then Paul caps it off by saying If he has wronged you at all, or owes you anything, charge that to my account.

Somehow I don’t think Philemon would charge Paul anything do you?  I think once he got past the shock of a changed Onesimus he would have been delighted.  Granted it’s ONLY CONJECTURE on my part, I’m just thinking of how I think it would have gone given Paul’s confidence in Philemon’s love for the people in his care. 

Now I have to admit.. I am not sure what to make of these verses “I, Paul, write this with my own hand: I will repay it—to say nothing of your owing me even your own self.  Yes, brother, I want some benefit from you in the Lord. Refresh my heart in Christ.”  Is Paul saying this would be a gift to him for Philemon to take Onesims back?  I know from verses 21 and 22 that Paul wants to come and see him.   I know that he is fairly confident that Philemon will take Onesimus and be generous in the doing so, so I’m thinking that Paul is just trying to sweeten the pot a bit.  Knowing Philemon’s heart is geared toward loving fellow believers and loving him so show this love by taking Onesimus back.

What do you my readers think?   I am so far off??  Is my thought process reasonable?   

But imagine it eh?  Imagine someone having that confidence in you that you would do something for them.  Imagine what Philemon’s witness would have been?   To be known as one who dearly loves his fellow believers.

Do you have that type of love?  I know that I struggle with it.  I really do.   I’ve been hurt one to many time by people professing to care for me (within the church) that I tend to be cautious and careful, giving trust slowly now (I used to give it too fast I think).  And cautious love isn’t the type of deep love that it appears to me that Philemon had for the church.  It’s something to aspire to isn’t it?

Because Christ had that kind of love, a HUGE love for the people of God.  His love was so strong he DIED for me.   Oh, that I might more easily love AND SHOW IT!  See that’s key right?   If Philemon didn’t show his love for God’s people who would even know?   So I need to love and I need to show it…both things… More clearly.

So then… shall we practice loving God’s People?   Letting that practice make our love real!  Let’s eh?

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Paul’s Prayer for Philemon

March 6, 2018 By Annette1 Leave a Comment

Last time we meet we discussed the first three verses in Philemon.   Today we will cover the next four. 

4 I always thank my God as I remember you in my prayers, 5 because I hear about your love for all his holy people and your faith in the Lord Jesus. 6 I pray that your partnership with us in the faith may be effective in deepening your understanding of every good thing we share for the sake of Christ. 7 Your love has given me great joy and encouragement, because you, brother, have refreshed the hearts of the Lord’s people.

Philemon 1:4-7 Pauls prayer in regards to Philemon

Isn’t it lovely when people thank God as they remember you in their prayers?   Isn’t it?  Just think of how comforting that must be, to know that God is being thanked FOR YOU.   At least I feel that way.  🙂   But I know that sometimes I’m a touch odd.  🙂

But listen here… listen to the reason Paul is giving things for Philemon and the others.   He has heard about Philemon’s love for God’s people and for his faith in Jesus Christ. Wouldn’t that be neat?   It’s like talking about a person about someone you really, really appreciate and you are just saying all the good things you know.   That’s what it feels like Paul is doing here. I wonder if these thoughts made Philemon’s heart smile. 

Paul goes on to say that his additional prayer for Philemon is that he may have a “deepening” of his “understanding of every good thing we share“.  Oh, for Philemon faith and understanding would deepen.  Isn’t that a marvellous prayer to have for someone? 

Philemon’s love for the people of God fills Paul’s heart with great joy and is a source of encouragement for him, knowing that Philemon has refreshed the hearts of God’s people. 

Oh.. I need to pray this for people that I know.. Like Lori and Kym and Deb and Carol and for my hubby and my son.  To pray prayers of thanksgiving, thanking God for their faith, and their love of the people of God.  It’s an important thing to do, and an encouragement for the people of God.   Oh and to pray that their faith and their understanding God will grow deeper and stronger!   That’s a great prayer!

Who do you need to pray this prayer for?

 

Oh.. while I’m talking about Prayer I need to tell you about this prayer app my hubby has been using lately.  It’s called PrayerMate.   I was looking at it this morning, and if I have room on my phone I think I’ll download it as well.  Sample prayers, prayer lists that can be personalized, and more.  It’s a rather cool app and also available for i-phones as well. So give it a boo and let me know what you think eh?  🙂

 

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Paul’s Greeting in Philemon

March 5, 2018 By Annette1 Leave a Comment

I have been pondering what to do for my next devotional time since I finished Ezra.  I was commenting to hubby and he said “just do something short until you figure out what you should do.”  He suggested Habbukuk since it’s only three chapters but I kinda wanted a break from the Old Testament until I was more sure what I should study next.  I started going through New Testament books thinking maybe I’d do James (and I still might later) when Philemon leapt off the page.  So I’ll take the next few days to go through Philemon.

We’ll start off with Philemon 1:1-3.

1 Paul, a prisoner for Christ Jesus, and Timothy our brother,
To Philemon our beloved fellow worker 2 and Apphia our sister and Archippus our fellow soldier, and the church in your house:
3 Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.The greeting paul gives in Philemon 1

Philemon is a one chapter book written by Paul along with Timothy to Philemon, Apphia and Archippus and the house church they are part of.

You know, I’ve always thought this letter was written just to Philemon.  I have NO CLUE who Apphia and Archippus are.   Time to do some research!

Philemon in introduced as a beloved worker.  Paul must have thought well of Philemon to call him a beloved worker.  He may have been the leader of the house church Paul referred to. 

Okay, most people think, due to historical records, that Apphia was Philemon’s wife.   There are those that disagree. Her name means “that which is fruitful”.

It is thought that Archippus was related to Apphia in some way.. possibly a brother or son.  The general thinking is that somehow all three of them are connected in some family way.  But we don’t know for sure.  What we do know is that Archippus was a fellow soldier in the church. Exactly what his ministry was we aren’t sure.  He is also mentioned in  Colossians 4:17 with the injunction to do the ministry he was called to. 

When Paul wrote this letter to them, he was a prisoner for Christ Jesus.   Timothy was with him at this time, not a prisoner, more there to just be an aid to him.  This helps with the timeline of writing being before the writing of 2 Timothy.  Mentioning Timothy’s name when writing about a private matter may have been helpful to Philemon.

Paul extends a greeting “Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ”.   It’s an often used greeting by Paul to people he is writing. 

Did you notice that Paul calls himself a prisoner and not an apostle in this letter?  Makes me wonder if being a prisoner was weighing on him a bit as he wrote this letter.  Or it was it was linked to the word he had for Philemon.  It’s hard to know eh?   It’s just a step out of the ordinary for him. 

 

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