So someone told me once it’s better to ask for forgiveness than permission. It’s not really a philosophy I hold to. Why? Some people will get so offended that if you ask for forgiveness it’s starts an unending battle because you should have asked FIRST! It’s a bit mind-boggling indeed. So I tend to go for the specific inquiry instead. If I ask and am turned down, it’s workable because I started from a position of respect you know? I don’t always like the answer I get though, but that’s on me, not them! So shall we continue to explore?
The Specific Inquiry
ages and ages ago
at least so it seems
my lad got upset about
pictures posted to social media
he was clear about his objections
and why a change was sought
so a bargain was reached
after the specific inquiry began.
face? name?
location? activity?
what was the issue?
can’t a mom share the important to her?
so animals and flowers
and back facing photos
no issues indeed.
holding a cat? showcase the beastie!
not a surprise you see
as conversations with foster families
and NO pictures of children ever
allowed, it’s a safety thing see?
over time with
respect and grace given
and a lad growing to understand
a mom’s love for the important.
more statements can be made
such as ONE picture i
will post, just one cause…
it’s your birthday!
and so a young man
with a pretty lady at his
side smiles for a camera
and a proud mama.
cause respect
it’s always a two-edged street
and often starts with
the specific inquiry.
a seeking to understand
the mindset and history,
thoughts and emotions
of another.
reaching an understanding
together that makes sense
and holds a relationship
together strongly.
this has been a Five Minute Friday Post.
